Lauren Waldman

 

Lauren is currently a freshman at Mainland Regional High School and won 1st place for her essay in the 3rd Annual "It's Always Something" Teen Writing Contest. 

 

Here is Lauren's essay...

 

The Red Stuffed Bear 

I was four years old and just coming home from preschool at the JCC.  My mom and dad were talking at the dining room table facing each other.  My mom had her hands folded neatly in her lap and my father had his hand on his forehead and elbow plummeted into the table.  I was four years old and my mom had just been diagnosed with breast cancer.  "Hi mommy, Hi daddy," I said, my words cutting through the dense air like my dad's razor.  They looked up slowly, as their solemn looks turned into fake smiles.

My mom left for the hospital one day and I felt awkward about the situation.  My routine life was changing and I wasn't happy about it.  When my dad took a Polaroid picture of me and my mom before she left, I didn't even smile for the camera when my dad said, "Say Cheese!"  Visiting my mom in the hospital was when it struck me that something wasn't right.  As I skipped around the waiting room of Jefferson Hospital, I noticed myself feeing lost in a world of people who all looked like normal people, but I could tell they were all empty on the inside.  All of the faces of the people in the hospital cafeteria struck me the most; they all looked like they were missing a part of themselves, which made me feel like I was missing something too.

Days before my mom was returning home from her stay at the hospital, my dad took my sister and me out to get a big comfy chair for my mother to stay in while she recovered from a double mastectomy.  We also got her a bright red stuffed bear to keep her company while my dad worked and my sister and I were in school.  I was constantly in my parent's room offering to go and get my mom the Soap Opera Digest or anything she might have needed.  When I got home from school, bouncing up the stairs was the first thing I would do.  I sat with her on the footrest of the new big chair while my mom ate, watched TV, or just talked to me.  She would always remind me of how strong I was and how much she appreciated everything I did for her. 


My mom, now, ten years later, is living life to her fullest extent.  I have learned how I can do my part in standing up to cancer.  My family and I are avid members of Gilda's Club, which is a place where people who are touched by cancer are always accepted and can go to talk to other people who are touched by cancer.  for the past few years, I have participated in the Shirley Mae Run & Gilda's Club Walk and I donated a portion of my Bat Mitzvah money to Gilda's Club.  One reason that I feel so connected to people who are touched by cancer is because many people in my family have had breast, ovarian and prostate cancer.  These people are the strongest men and women that I have ever met and I feel it is my job to help everyone else who is in need of the kind of love and support Gilda's Club has given my family.


To this day I still sleep with that old red stuffed bear every night.  When I was five, I asked my mom if I could have it, never knowing that I would keep it all of these years.  Although it is ratty now and the bright red fur has become thinner and lighter, the bear still makes me think of the bright future I see myself having.  I hope that I will be as strong as my mom and that when I have a family of my own, I will teach them to always be open and loving to others like people were to me and my family when we were battling cancer. 

 


 

 

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